Allow yourself

Give it time, but don’t stay there until it consumes you.

Give it space, but don’t let it fill all the space.

Reflect on your mistakes, but don’t you dare believing it was all your fault.

Forget what you must, but don’t throw away all the good it brought you.

Feel it, le it hurt deeply, but don’t think life is just pain.

Think about her as much as you need to, but only if it makes you better not worse.

You can hate how it ended, but never the person.

Miss who you were together, not who she is.

Try absolutely everything to make it work, but only as long as there is some light still.

Look for the beauty she introduced you in anything, but don’t look for her in everything.

Write, dance, sing, do anything you want to express yourself, but not to appeal.

Take away the learning, but let others start with a clean sheet.

It’s ok to fear anything, but don’t be paralysed by it.

Be miserable about it, but don’t make others and everything else miserable.

You had something truly special, but whatever comes will be special in a different way.

Trails of her are going to always stay in your heart, but that doesn’t mean you won’t be able to love fully.

Looking back anyone could say I was a fool but when I was there looking ahead it took courage.

Words left unsaid will eat you up from the inside, but don’t you burden her what you still have to say, share it with others instead.

It’s ok to keep yourself occupied, but don’t do it to run away from your emotions.

You lost someone special, but you didn’t lose everyone.

It didn’t work out, but don’t you think it was all for nothing.

Tell your heart, you’re proud of it. It did great. Soon enough it will be ready to do it all over again.

Thursday, 18 June 2026